For more information about disaster preparedness, contact Ben Ranz at Puente at branz@mypuente.org
For more information about disaster preparedness, contact Ben Ranz at Puente at branz@mypuente.org
In Central and South Mexico, Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) is a hallowed melding of Indigenous and Catholic traditions that honors loved ones with rituals that include an altar decorated with sugar skulls, marigolds, food and photos to commemorate those who have died. It’s a time to reflect on family and loss and what is important in life.
It has acquired profound meaning in the lives of a group of local mothers who have come together to stage the event at the final Pescadero Farmers’ Market of the season, which this year will occur on Thursday, October 29.
Seven years ago, Puente social worker Belinda Arriaga introduced Dia de los Muertos to Pescadero to encourage South Coast mothers to engage in the meaningful traditions they had back in Mexico. A grant from the Bella Vista Foundation to combat maternal depression provided Puente with the opportunity to use culturally relevant art projects as a way to address the feeling of rootlessness Arriaga saw in many local women whose families and traditions were so many miles away.
This year, the Madres Group has collaborated with Puente staff member and resident artist, Alejandra Ortega, to organize the Dia de los Muertos celebration, with additional funding from the San Francisco Community Foundation Faiths Program. The women, along with about 20 other community participants, make art together every Monday leading up to the big event on October 29, decorating plates and sugar skulls while they spend quality time with their children and each other.
“It’s helps them feel a part of the community and it lifts the veil of isolation and depression,” says Joann Watkins, Clinical Director for Puente. Watkins is particularly happy that this year, Puente has identified four leaders among the local mothers. They are taking charge of the art workshops and are planning the altar, the food – everything.
“Our job is to work ourselves out of a job and have the community take over. We want this to be a community event, and it is starting to be that way more and more,” adds Watkins.
One of those women is Yessenia Serratos, who says she has gained new friendships from the evenings she has spent decorating sugar skulls and other art for the altar. Like many of the women in the Madres Project, Serratos also participates in Puente ESL classes, Zumba and a women’s walking group in town.
“I gain fellowship with people and I can understand them better as individuals. We speak the same language and come from the same country, but we are very different people,” says Serratos, who is from Baja California, a part of Mexico that does not widely celebrate Dia de los Muertos. Serratos grew up with Halloween instead, so she has taught herself pretty much everything she knows about Dia de los Muertos traditions. She has even drawn inspiration from the artwork of Frida Kahlo, which deals with mortality-related themes.
“I feel nervous about it – it’s my first time. I’ve been watching YouTube videos about everything… including how you make the altar. I want this to be excellent,” she enthuses.
Serratos isn’t sure whether she’ll paint her face this year with sugar skull makeup. “I’ll be the cowgirl rocking the skull shirt,” she jokes.
The Madres aren’t the only group with special plans for the October 29 farmers’ market. A group of students from Pescadero High School will be there, handing out educational materials that explore a very important topic: binge drinking, a common form of alcohol abuse among young people. They will be wearing matching skull-themed t-shirts designed by local artist and Puente program assistant, Jovany Rios.
The students are in a Puente-led discussion group that meets regularly throughout the year to plan education campaigns about alcohol and other drugs. Their goal is to cultivate community-wide awareness through projects that are student-driven, not adult-driven.
“There’s some tragedy in the community around binge drinking, so it will be great to see how their efforts pan out,” says Suzanne Hughes, one of Puente’s marriage and family therapists. Hughes put the curriculum together. The program is supported by a grant from the Youth Leadership Institute.
The young people can earn community service hours for their participation, but there’s an additional perk. Through Friday Night Live, a project of the Youth Leadership Institute, they get to travel to other parts of San Mateo County and socialize with students in the same program.
“It was a small group, but it got popular very quickly once they realized they would get to visit other chapters and meet other youth their age,” says Watkins.
Puente’s behavioral health programs have always had a wide focus by design, from personal and family therapy to group workshops on domestic violence and child abuse prevention, or drug and alcohol abuse.
This fall, a new Puente program called Seeking Safety focuses on the troubling reality of generational trauma among young people in and around Pescadero. Many young people suffer from trauma symptoms without realizing it, says Watkins – from brushes with domestic violence, incest and rape to a family history of substance abuse. And the trauma tends to perpetuate itself in the younger generation.
“It’s not just here, but I do feel we have a higher rate of generational trauma. It’s a rural community, and I think people gravitate toward a place where they can stay isolated. They don’t have to be out in public as much. If you’re traumatized, you try to avoid things that trigger you,” explains Watkins.
The Seeking Safety training, made possible by a grant from San Mateo County, entails 25 skill-building workshops to teach women how to identify the symptoms of trauma and cope with them in a group setting. If participants complete all 25 sessions, they will receive a $1,000 stipend. This year, Puente is working with women aged 18 to 25; next year Puente hopes to work with a similar male cohort.
“They don’t have the language for what’s happening, but when one of them says it, the others recognize it” adds Watkins. “They have no idea where those feelings are coming from.”
Grief is another thing that almost everyone in Pescadero struggles to recognize and process. For her part, Serratos has discovered a meaningful and cathartic way to honor all the loved ones she has lost and misses the most. At Dia de los Muertos, she’s looking forward to the music, the colors, the flowers and the incense.
“I like using my imagination. I’m able to think of the people I’ve lost. And I think about how one day I’m going to go, and how I would like to be celebrated in the same way,” she says.
The Day of the Dead celebration occurs from 3 to 7p.m. on Thursday, October 29 at the final farmer’s market of the season. Enjoy live music, a labyrinth, pan de muerto, and more next to the Pescadero Country Store, 251 Stage Rd.
Mayte Enriquez hates math, and she struggles with the complicated tangle of rules that govern the English language. But the Pescadero resident is determined to master both subjects so she can move on from being a dishwasher and a cashier.
“I’ve never been good at math. But I remember that when I was younger, one of my teachers told me that if there was a subject I didn’t like or I didn’t understand, if I worked hard to master the material, then I could achieve other things in life,” says Enriquez, whose name has been changed because she was not born in the U.S.

Two students in one of Puente’s ESL classes.
For the last several years, Enriquez turned to Puente for free ESL classes that helped her build basic conversational skills. Eventually she progressed through all three ESL levels. Last semester, she was one of eight adults who enrolled in a beginner’s ESL class at Cañada College, a Redwood City-based community college with a satellite program in Half Moon Bay. There she learned “proper” English: grammar and punctuation, tenses and spelling.
For Enriquez, who is 28, it’s not just about wanting to be understood and to converse with the people around her – although it’s plenty embarrassing when she is working at her cash register and customers ask her a question she can’t answer. It’s not simply about getting by. It’s about moving forward in her adopted country – into higher education and a rewarding career that will lift her out of minimum wage.
And as if that weren’t challenging enough, Enriquez is also studying for her GED through Puente, which provides her with one-on-one tutoring and study materials to take the high school equivalency test. She has been working on it for a year, and will stay on course for as long as it takes.
Last semester, she spent two nights a week studying ESL and another two nights a week studying for her GED at Puente.
“My goal is definitely to continue college. I also plan on getting a new career as well. I don’t ever want to think to myself that I should have tried this or done that,” she says.
It’s a sign of strength that adult students like Enriquez are using Puente ESL and GED classes as a springboard to furthering their ambitions. Whether students are in high school or the workplace, Puente works to instill college dreams and then gives them the tools to get there.
Very often this involves helping students overcome barriers to their own education.
Puente Deputy Executive Director Rita Mancera ticks off the list of challenges. “Transportation. Distance. Time. Childcare. What are you going to do if your partner doesn’t support you, or if your partner also wants to take a class? … And this is on top of their full-time jobs.”
Take Enriquez and her classmates last semester, who motivated each other to sign up for the ESL course at Cañada College. Even though the class was in Half Moon Bay, at Cunha Intermediate School, it still meant taking four hours off, two nights a week. They had to meet the bus at 6:30 p.m. (Puente paid to transport them to Half Moon Bay with assistance from the La Honda-Pescadero Unified School District, which got a federal School Improvement Grant to help parents of kids in the school district.)
For Enriquez, that meant sacrificing income and asking her boss for permission to leave work early. Other women in the group are juggling school and parenting very young children. And yet, two of the students are already enrolled in college part-time, working toward a certificate in early childhood education while they also work and take ESL classes at the same time. “They all passed the class together. It’s a huge commitment. They’re very motivated,” says Mancera.
Puente’s leadership in adult education dates back to 2009, when it stepped up to replace an ESL class Cañada College used to offer in Pescadero. One class turned into two, then three. Today there’s one morning ESL class and three levels of classes at night every Tuesday and Thursday.
In 2012, Puente piloted a new, comprehension-based ESL curriculum based on the work of Stanford Prof. Guadalupe Valdés (as distinct from a strict grammar approach).

Stanford Prof. Guadalupe Valdés with two students in one of Puente’s ESL classes.
Puente’s ESL program is growing, and so is the rest of its adult education program. Last summer, Eufemia Castro and Liliana Villalobos were the first two Puente adult students to earn their GEDs. They did so while learning English, working full-time, and raising their children. It took them four years, and there are nine other students following in their footsteps today.
Puente recruits volunteers to mentor Spanish-speaking students who want to excel beyond the primary school education they received in Mexico through a program called Plaza Comunitaria, a primary and middle school curriculum sponsored by the Mexican Consulate.
Last year’s cohort of Puente adult learners, around 100 students, was the largest to date, and “I think this year it will be even more,” says Mancera. The adult education program is sponsored by a grant from the Silicon Valley Community Foundation.
Puente also formed an early childhood education initiative in partnership with the La Honda-Pescadero School District and the Heising-Simons Foundation. Its programs are geared toward improving school readiness for South Coast children – and for their parents, who are learning to engage and to advocate for their kids within the local school district. Puente recently hired Arlae Alston as Family Engagement Project Manager, a new position that will help her oversee everything from Raising a Reader + Family Nights and Abriendo Puertas, to training local childcare home providers. Prior to this, Alston worked as a part time early literacy specialist with Puente.
She will be working closely with Noel Chavez, a former Cañada College recruiter and outreach coordinator who is Puente’s new Education Director. Chavez will be using his experience and connections in the community college system to create opportunities for local youth and adults to enter college and pursue their dreams. He succeeds Academic Director Suzanne Abel, who is retiring after a 4-year tenure. “Students need to feel they can accomplish their goals and that they have support after they leave Puente,” says Chavez.
For her part, Abel will use her ‘emerita’ position to mentor some college-bound youngsters and to formalize a scholarly advisory council for Puente that includes faculty and staff from major local institutions, like Stanford University and UC Santa Cruz. Abel counts Puente’s early childhood initiative and the university partnerships among her notable accomplishments. She has helped Puente benefit from the input of researchers and worked with Prof. Valdés to build interpretation services for LHPUSD schools. She helped Pescadero students access pre-college programs at Stanford, and worked with Puente board member Larry Trujillo to bring UC Santa Cruz students into Pescadero classrooms as tutor-mentors and bilingual teacher’s aides.
“The great thing about our partnerships with the La Honda-Pescadero school district is we’re not just looking at the whole person, but the whole family,” says Kerry Lobel, Executive Director of Puente.
ESL classes begin September 1, and staff members are excited about a new development. Starting this semester, the final class of the month will be a ‘conversation café’ with tables set up for students to converse with bilingual volunteers. Mancera expects that some students will opt to sit at tables where they can work to improve their language comprehension. Other students will want to be corrected so they can learn to speak properly.
“There are two big groups – those who want to master speaking English but they don’t care if it’s grammatically correct. They want to be able to get things done,” explains Mancera. “There’s a different group that cares about speaking properly and they want to learn a more academic English. They have aspirations for college.”

Students in one of Puente’s ESL classes.
Enriquez fits into the latter category. But before she can enroll in community college, she’ll need to pass her GED and improve her English. Students like Enriquez have learned all they can from Puente’s ESL program, but their English is not good enough to allow them to enroll in a college training program.
A partnership Puente is exploring with a group of local schools and nonprofits could fill that gap, and possibly establish an adult school in Half Moon Bay and Pescadero.
Puente is part of a new group called the Coastside Collaborative Action Team, a consortium of administrators, teachers, and staff from Cabrillo Unified School District, Cañada College, the La Honda-Pescadero Unified School District, the Half Moon Bay Library and the Career Ladders Project. Together, the group is coming up with a plan to expand adult education on the coast.
“We have a large number of adults who need language and job skills support from the educational system, either because they don’t have the skills needed in the current market, or because they never finished high school or didn’t enter college in their home countries,” says Jenny Castello, a professor and coordinator in the ESL Department at Cañada College.
The adult education initiative is part of a much larger statewide push to better serve the educational needs of adults in California. Under AB 86, the state allotted $25 million in planning grants to community college and school districts.
An adult continuation school would be ideal for Enriquez as she works her way toward a new career. The whole point of learning English, for her, is to learn math – even though it remains her least favorite subject. “A lot of jobs nowadays require a lot of math, so learning that would definitely help,” she says.
As Abel prepares to retire, she sees college horizons opening up not just for South Coast children for their parents, too.
“To see parents pursuing their own education in this country is so powerful. That they can aspire to their own education is an example to their kids – it’s a message to the younger set about what’s possible. There’s nothing more inspiring,” Abel says.
Volunteer for Puente’s Conversation Café! For details, contact Abby Mohaupt at amohaupt@mypuente.org or (650) 879-1691 x114.